What Should I do if My Phone Chat Partner is Shy?

By Maria Padara
Posted March 10, 2019
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With chat lines open 24 hours a day and hosting people from all over the world, it makes sense that sometimes your phone chat partner may be a bit shy. While we want everyone to be comfortable and be able to chat and make connections sometimes it takes a little longer for some folks than others. So what do you do if your phone chat partner happens to be a little shy? It’s easy!
Take it slow and let them know that you want to listen to them. Some people feel vulnerable and you do not want to push them. Just let them know that when they are ready to talk you are ready to listen and you can start to share details about yourself to help them feel a little less shy.
Be as nonjudgmental as possible and let them know that this is a safe place that they can share. They may have a serious topic to discuss or want to talk about a kink or sexual preference that they haven’t worked out for themselves. If that’s the case let them know that you do not judge them is going to make things so much easier for them on the phone chat.
The last tip is to show them appreciation when they do start to share and open up. Adult phone chat can be a lot of fun and you can make so many connections with other like-minded people. Letting others know you appreciate what they are telling you and maybe you even feel the same way can take phone chat to a whole other level!