What if Your Phone Sex Buddy is Shy

During your adventures on your favorite phone sex number, you’ll very likely meet very different kinds of people. There’s the dirty talk nympho that doesn’t even want to hear your name before telling you in extreme detail what she would do to you if you were right there with her, while other girls are extremely romantic, and they will ask you to pretend that you’re the White Knight coming to their rescue. Seriously!

Let’s face it: some girls are shyer than others. And this doesn’t only affect sex: while some women are naturally very chatty and have no problems starting a conversation with a stranger, others need more time to make new friends and you will have to break the ice. Here’s some advice to keep in mind if your new dirty talk buddy is shy:

Don’t jump straight to chatting about sex. You don’t have to be in a hurry if you want her to open up with you. She probably needs you to flirt with her a little more than the average woman to become turned on and making your conversation a very dirty one. Ask her some questions about her hobbies, interests or about the music she likes to listen: talking about something she loves will act as an ice-breaker, and starting to flirt will be easier for you.

Respect her boundaries. If she says that she wants to talk a little more before phone sex, you’ll have to respect that. Also, many shy girls don’t like words that are too dirty, like slut or whore. Make sure that you discuss this with her before your dirty conversations, so you’ll both be on the same page at all times. Don’t insist that she does or says something that she’s not comfortable with: consensuality is very important when it comes to phone sex!

Don’t forget to tell her how much you find her sexy and smart. Often, shy women are just a little self-conscious. If you can boost her self-esteem without sounding fake, you’ve probably done most of the work.