Consent is Sexy
There have been a lot of things in the media about people who haven’t been playing by the rules and that makes a lot of guys scared to make the first move. We have heard from a lot of our users who are worried about going on a date with someone and thinking that everything is fine and then finding out that their new friend didn’t have as good a time as they did. The best way to avoid this whole situation is to try to get affirmative consent when you are going out with someone and getting into bed with them. It’s a pretty easy way to try it. You just make sure your partner is enjoying everything as much as you are. Of course don’t just keep asking if they like it over and over but you can make it sexier than that.
Try saying things like “Does that make you wet?” or “Does that turn you on.” You can gauge their interest by seeing how they respond to that. If they don’t seem that enthusiastic then it is best not to try to get in their pants too much because maybe they are not enjoying themselves. However, if they insist they are or they really seem to be then it is probably a safe bet so you can take them to the bed and have your way with them.
Well the first step towards trying out affirmative consent for the very first time is making sure that you have someone to do it with. That involves hopping on a phone line and just dialing the number for your local area. There you will get a good sense of who is on there and who you want to talk to that will do a great job of making you feel hot and horny! Why haven’t you tried it out yet??