The Do’s And Don’ts Of Good Phone Sex

Adult phone dating hotlines for a free phone date and phone sex chat lines are fantastic places to have some hot and horny fun and add endorphins to your life. Here are some of the do’s and don’ts:

Do: Communicate your wants

If each person having phone sex did this, everyone would have better phone sex most of the time. Let the other person communicate their wants as well. Combine them when possible to get an erotic experience like no other.

Don’t: Ignore what the other person doesn’t like

You would not tickle someone that absolutely hates it and says it causes them mental trauma. If they don’t like it, don’t do it. The same concept applies to phone sex. Talk about possible triggers and dislikes, and build your phone sex around the positives, while avoiding the negatives.

Do: Be very descriptive.

Paint a picture in the other person’s mind using your words. Many people say that the tone you use and the emotion, whether carnal, romantic, or rough, can have a considerable impact on phone sex. Set a mood and a tone based on your prior communication and fill in the detailed sex talk to get your phone sex partners juices flowing.

Don’t: Focus only on your needs

Phone sex, like most all other types of sex, is about more than one person. People that are invested in both their experience and the other person’s experience are more likely to have incredible orgasms, as well as be more able to tap into desires of the other person. When both people are having a good time, more fun tends to happen.

Do: Open up to the other person about your fantasies

Don’t: Take all fantasies as something that the other person wants to actually do in real life

Do: Explore fantasies that might not be in the realm of possibility in the real world

Don’t: Make the other person feel stupid about their fantasy. It might not be your kink, but it’s a valid kink

Also, have fun. What is the point of phone sex if you aren’t having fun with it. Be open to laughing and trying new things. With such an excellent place to have judgement free fun and get a free phone date, it’s no wonder more people are trying it out every day!