How to Meet a Virtual Friend With Benefits Over The Phone
You’ve heard about sex phone lines, and you have probably thought to yourself “How do they work? Can I really find strangers who want to have phone sex easily?”
The answer is a resounding yes. Phone Sex Chatlines have been around for decades and their success is proof that they have the reach and popularity that makes it simple to find a willing and eager partner who wants to talk dirty with you. There is never a time when you can’t dial one of the local access numbers and find many horny and happy strangers who want to hot chat and get off.
Why does it work? Because anonymity allows people be themselves and say and imagine all the things they would likely be too shy to talk about or do in real life.
Now you have those questions answered we will discuss how you can get the best experience when you dial into a sex phone chat.
What are you looking for?
Maybe you just love to hear someone get off or talk dirty. You may have kinks or fetishes that you would love to explore in a safe environment and find like-minded kinksters who share those interests. Because Phone Sex Chat has so many callers you will quickly find many people just like you wanting to talk about those things. Choice is truly one of the benefits of using a service with a pedigree like Phone Chat, no matter what time of day you are calling there are always going to be other play ready people who cannot wait to start chatting with other people and get down and dirty with them.
You can either give some thought about what you want to talk about before you dial in and what you are comfortable with or not. Knowing your boundaries can be important, especially if you want to experiment with fantasies you are not familiar with.
Perhaps you are just horny and want to get off. That is fine. Plenty of other callers are going to be in the same mood. Just go have fun.
Who knows? Maybe your conversations will take you down a path of sexy exploration and you will discover something new that gets you off harder than you thought was possible. When you are having phone sex with strangers you can never be sure what delights you may find.
How To Break The Ice
You have dialed in. Now what? If it’s your first time using a sex chat service, you may want to have a couple of notes ready just in case you find yourself tongue tied. We have all had those moments when our minds go blank, so it can help to do a few seconds of preparation to avoid those embarrassing moments. If you still get tongue tied, realize that they’re likely just as nervous if it’s their first time. Have a laugh about it together. Laughter breaks ice just as effectively as smooth banter.
Because it’s a sex line chat most of the hard work is already done for you. Everyone is an adult, and everyone is there for similar reasons. That certainly helps break through the initial resistance most people have when looking for sex partners. Introduce yourself and ask a couple of basic questions. Try to get a feel for the other person and whether you have a good rhythm of conversation. We all know how it feels when things start clicking and you have things in common.
Do not worry if you find the conversation stilted or difficult. We don’t always get along with everyone. Sometimes the sparks just don’t fly. That’s perfectly ok. Be graceful and move along. There are plenty more potential phone sex partners to meet for both of you. You will not hurt anyone’s feelings by politely cutting the conversation short and moving on.
Within a short period of time, you are sure to find someone that you are enjoying chatting with. Be a little understanding when you start chatting. Not everyone wants to jump into explicit sex talk immediately. At least verbally shake hands first. But when there is chemistry, you will both feel it and that is going to quickly evolve into great phone sex.
When To Share Information
You are going to be the ultimate judge of when the time is right to start sharing more intimate details.
Of course, when you are talking about sex or fantasies you are going to talk about their body and your body. Talk about yourself however you want. This is your fantasy, and you can be, or do, whatever your imagination can think of.
If you find yourself really enjoying someone’s company it brings up other opportunities to share information about yourself. Maybe you have hit it off with your phone sex partner and are starting to dig more deeply into your sexual desires and fantasies.
What To Share
Start slow. Few people want a massive mind-dump of everything you are into as a huge list. IT can be overwhelming and create so much noise there is no space for them to consider if they like it too. In fact, the best technique to truly seduce someone is simply listen and reflect. This is an old negotiating trick but works incredibly well in personal situations.
Ask a simple question about their thoughts about sex. Then reflect back the last few words of whatever they said as a question. You’ll find that they will continue to provide depth and detail on whatever it was they were talking about.
You: “So, do you like oral sex?”
Them: “Yah, I really love to give and receive it. It can be an amazing way to explore a new lover’s turn ons.”
You: “A new lover’s turn ons?”
Them: [launches into lots of details about what techniques they use, why they enjoy it]
Rinse and repeat.
This powerful tool will make them feel that you are a great listener and, believe it or not, a charming conversationalist. Even if you say nothing at all but repeat them. Sex chat lines are a perfect place to try this technique because it’s such a low risk interaction. Try it out. You are going to be amazed at how quickly people will decide you’re the most wonderful person they’ve ever met.
If you just had mind-blowing phone sex and want to continue your encounter, share some sexy secrets or moments. Tease them with new ideas and see if they are responsive. Use the reflection technique when they start sharing their own details and desires.
Very soon you will be ramping up for round two with your new phone sex partner.