My Phone Sex Diary
Why did I create a phone sex diary?
A phone sex diary is a diary detailing my phone sex experiences. I decided to create it because I thought it could be helpful to look back at when I’m lonely, horny, bored, or I want some inspiration to go about my day-to-day.
I’m a retired, widowed woman with two adult children who have their own families and lives to attend to, and before joining the phone sex chatline, you could say I was bored, a little sad, and very much lonely.
I wasn’t lonely because I didn’t have friends or activities, but I was lonely because I didn’t know what I was missing. I never truly connected to my sexuality. I was married in my early 20s and then a mother when I was 27 years old. Sex was just a thing. Sometimes it felt good.
I felt I owed it to myself to get reacquainted with my sexual side, but I didn’t just want to slut it up with random people I met on online dating platforms. So eventually, I learned about the phone sex chatlines.
What I intended my phone sex diary to become, it has, and much more. It’s a reflection of myself and my sexual experiences with strangers of every kind.
One memorable phone sex experience
One of the most memorablephone sex experiences I’ve ever recounted in the diary happened about 5 or 6 years ago. I knew what I wanted before I dialed into the chat platform. I tried to pretend I was young and pretty again. I knew men still found me attractive in my older age, but it wasn’t like the younger me, full of life and naivety.
The first friendly stranger I spoke to that day was alright with what I suggested. He was a 19-year-old man from Phoenix, Arizona. In my mind, I made up an image of a young James Dean type, very handsome and suave. The role-playing scenario was I was myself but only 19 years old. He went with it and pretended to be a 24-year-old man who would do anything to have me.
The experience changed my perception of myself because even though I was pretending to be a version of myself from the past, it was all me. I felt warm all over my body and had a massive orgasm over the phone!
Phone sex got rid of my sadness
When you’re actively present and doing yourself to include mindfulness throughout your days and night’s negative emotions seems like they vanish. When they do pop up, you’re able to sit with them and move past the sometimes-ugly sadness and anger.
I always had an avoidance issue. I would push down my emotions and pretend that they didn’t exist. So, when my husband passed away, I forced myself to feel, and I was depressed.
After being active on the phone chat platform, I noticed that sadness was no longer a part of my day. I moved on from the feelings of upset to feelings of acceptance. It was more manageable.
Improvement of sleep
If you have issues with sleeping, phone sex will surely cure it. All you have to do is dial into the chat platform a few hours before bedtime and have excellent, light-hearted dirty sex conversations with friendly strangers.
By putting effort into the conversations, you have and engaging in phone sex, you will relieve some stress and naturally get tired. It can improve your overall health, and you will sleep like a baby.
You can also incorporate other healthy actions to improve your sleep quality, such as regular exercise, daily mental stimulation, and eating healthy.
Creative flow
There are plenty of aspects of phone sex that call for being creative. You can make up or co-create a role-playing scenario with phone friends or be in the moment with developing a fantasy or two.
You can also use your imagination when a phone pal describes their wet dreams, desires, and fantasies. Using your imagination can look like coming up with images as your phone friend’s defining something or creating a picture in your head of what your phone friend may look like based on the sound of their voice.
Confidence booster
Phone sex is a natural confidence booster because you can have positive interactions with strangers consistently. The phone sex chatline is open 24 hours a day and every day of the week for your convenience.
You can talk about sex, and it does not feel nervous about other people’s judgments after some time. After all, if a call goes awry, you always have the power to end the call and move on to a new conversation with someone else.
Takeaways
I recommend that all people experience phone sex at least a handful of times in their lives. It’s a safe, fun, and creative way to connect with friendly strangers worldwide. It gives you chances to explore your desires in full depth with people you may not otherwise meet. It also brings confidence, understanding, and self-pleasure.
I love that I decided to create a phone sex diary, and for anyone who needs to figure out their relationship to pleasure and sexuality, I recommend crafting one of their own.
The major takeaway from reading over my entries is that I love people, I love being creative, and I love myself!