Be the Phone Chat Champion

Getting to know someone through phone chat is so much easier than it used to be. You can sit in your living room, in your car or even in the bathtub and make lasting and deep connections with people that are local to you or that are halfway across the world. All that matter on phone chat is that you are open and honest about what you want and what you need from the conversations that you have.
The best way to be a phone chat champ and make sure things go smoothly is to stay calm and relaxed. The person you are chatting with on the phone lines has some of the same goals you do for calling. This means that you are pretty much on the same level or at least have been before. Staying calm and relaxed will keep you from becoming anxious and flustered. When you start to feel that way you may start to zone out and work yourself up unnecessarily. Just breathe, find a comfy spot to chat and you can even try letting your new phone chat partner take the reigns so you can take some deep breaths and just enjoy yourself.
A great phone chat partner will also take it to the next level. If you are getting all the right signs from your phone chat partner don’t be scared to ask if they want to take it to the next level and maybe have somemobile phone sex. Sometimes the person on the other line doesn’t want to ask that and that’s okay but you can be their superhero if you broach the subject and offer it first!