Navigating a First Date

When you want to hook up with someone you have met on the phone line for sex you don’t want to make any snafus or hiccups that will make it so that the hook up doesn’t happen. Here are ways to make your personality shine through so that you will get to the part of the evening that you are really into.

1. Give detailed answers. If she asks you a question like where do you work, don’t just say the name of the company, give a little commentary! She wants to know you so give her more than just the bare bones details.
2. But, keep it classy. Don’t give too many details about things like how much you hate your boss, your ex girlfriend’s dramatic woes, your messed up family dynamics or how you wish your dad had been around. You can allude to these things but on a first date when you are hoping for a hook up you don’t want to get too deep into the emotional stuff.
3. No negging! A lot of guys think that negging is the way to go when you are phone dating and looking for a hook up, but it’s really not. Negging just makes girls feel defensive and weird, and it’s not the more surefire way to get to a hookup. Instead give her genuine compliments, especially about how attractive you find her.
4. Keep it interesting. Don’t ask her the same questions every guy asks her on a date. Try to think of a few interesting ones before hand that will keep you both on your toes. Women appreciate creativity and asking unique questions will get her to open up.
5. Don’t talk about other dates. Keep things focused on the two of you, not why you’re single or why you were using the phone line for sex to meet up!