Phone Dating as a Couple

My husband and I have been together for over 20 years and as much as we love each other’s company, our sex life has been stale. We didn’t communicate with one another about it for a few years, allowing the natural flow of our lives to consume us. Yet, last year we had a talk about what we could do to change our situation. A close family friend told us during a dinner that he tried phone dating. At first, there was a bunch of teasing remarks thrown his way, even a few from me but then he explained why he enjoyed it so much. He talked about phone sex being safe.

There doesn’t have to be any strings attached or any emotional ties after the act. Then he said, he felt that he could be creative and try new things because if something didn’t go right, he could always just end the phone call. And the last thing that was interesting to hear was that the chat lines are always open. When I first heard my friend communicate about phone dating, I was very skeptical but after hearing his side of things, I couldn’t get it off my mind. About a week later, I approached my husband about it to see if he would be willing to give it a whirl as a couple.

He was calm with his response and said that he’d be willing to give it a try and we did. The most magical thing happened, I got my lover back. We were able to communicate to one another about what we wanted and what we now found attractive and hot. We had fun playing on the phone with strangers and got comfortable with one another again. We recreated the spark we started so many years ago. I learnt about his boundaries with strangers and also learnt about my own. We tried out new things and allowed for one another to experience sexual joy again. Don’t worry about phone sex being safe! It’s really fun!