Temperature Play when it’s Cold Outside
It’s halfway through winter and it’s starting to get pretty cold outside. Everyone is curled up under blankets and sipping warm drinks, or they are enjoying the snow by playing outside or putting. Up festive decorations! When you’re not sipping hot cocoa or making snow angels in the front yard, how can you take advantage of the season? How about using some of that deliciously cold snow and ice for some temperature play with your phone sex partner?
Temperature play gives your body a new sensation by playing with your senses and providing your skin with a stimulating and erotic experience. It takes hot and cold and alternates between them to tantalize your body with extreme changes to give you the most intense pleasure. Temperature tolerances can vary from person to person, so it’s important to know your limits, or at least to be cautious when trying things for the first time.
While one person loves the cold, another may get a less than pleasant shock in caressing their nipples with an icicle. Another person may get turned on with hot candle wax dripping down their genitals, where someone else may flinch at the same thing. Know your limits, or at least take things slowly if you haven’t discovered those yet!
When playing with different temperatures, you and your chatline partner can incorporate games or seductive ideas, such as when to switch from hot to cold, where apply the temperature change, or just telling each other what you’re doing with specific items. With enough time to prepare, a condom can be filled with water and frozen for a homemade icicle. If you are sensitive to heat, fill a clean sock with rice or uncooked dry beans and microwave it for 30 seconds to get a basic warmth that will cool after a few minutes without burning you.
It’s also important to remember that when you play with temperature, you don’t want to go from extreme heat to extreme cold or the other way around. The sudden change, if you’re not used to it, can hurt in an unpleasant way, so start with moderate temperature changes and shifts! Let your partner know what you’re comfortable with in advance so you can both have fun with the sensations! Remember, there is no judgement during your chat, and phone sex is the perfect way to test your boundaries without the risk of overdoing it!
Temperature play, in general, is an exciting and erotic way to spend your time indoors while making the most of the cold weather. Whether it’s as simple as using warming or cooling lubricants, or you go all-out with hot wax, ice dildos, and everything in between. Temperature play is a new technique for breaking into BDSM and enjoying your body, all while getting new ideas and seductive playtime with your phone sex chatline partner! How will you enjoy the cold tonight?