Going from Hookup to Relationship

Your main intention when calling free phonesex numbers is hooking up. Well duh, that’s what it’s for. It’s so good and the chemistry is right on, so you meet for a real tryst. Fantastic! Sometimes though, that hookup become two, then five, and so on until all of a sudden you find yourself in a relationship. Now that relationship can take many forms, from open non-monogamous to full on moving in with each other. Whatever it is, here are some tips make it flow smoothly and lead to a great partnership.

The first problem you may encounter is the origin story. It might be a little awkward and embarrassing to tell people you met on a line when you were trying to learn how to talk dirty on the phone . If you don’t give any fucks and own it proudly, don’t be offended if you’re partner is. Talk about it and make up a fun story to tell people or something close to the truth, just say you met on a dating site. No problem!

The next problem you might encounter is making it official. You met for booty calls and were purely sexual. Maybe one of you feels more than the other or you’re on the level. Just be completely open and honest about your feelings. If it’s weird, then agree to keep revisiting and negotiating. Be willing to compromise and be open to different relationship styles. The worst thing you can do is keep your needs a secret. 

It’s easy to get attached and anxious that your new bae is a wild slutty beast. Maybe she is and that’s ok. Before you commit to someone, really think about them and be ok with who they are and understand their needs. If they want a little dick or pussy on the side, you might have to adjust your expectations to keep your cute slut in your life, or just return to the free phone sex numbers to try again.