Be Respectful Even in One Night Stands

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a one night stand. Everyone should have one every once in awhile, and phonesex numbers are a great place to find them. Sometimes you just need a hot, passionate fuck with someone you just met. It’s a kind of release, exhilaration, and bliss you can’t find anywhere else, especially when you leave afterwards and never talk to them again!

Now that your puritanical guilt has been assuaged, you don’t feel bad about that semi or fully anonymous shag, and you’re ready to call our local chat line to have dirty conversations to prep for that delicious booty call. However, just because we’ve determined that having one night stands is cool, doesn’t mean you should go out no-holds-barred, and be an asshole. Be a nice “playa” and be respectful, so you can both walk away happy and fulfilled, with no regrets.

First of all, no one owes you sex, no matter how slutty they are, how much they flirt, and how little they wear. If you want to the good guy, practice affirmative consent. Check in and ask if your date is enjoying themselves and is happy with what you’re doing. If at any point they say no, just stop. At that point maybe the date is over and you can try again next time or maybe they just need to slow down or take a minute to feel sexy again. Don’t be pushy. 

When it’s all done and you’re satisfied, tell them what a wonderful time you had and thank them. Just because you may leave and never see them again, doesn’t mean you can’t be sweet and have a little cuddle time, pillow talk, and aftercare. Lastly, don’t get up in the middle of the night and sneak away. Either say it upfront and say goodnight or spend the night, maybe you can have another shag in the morning before you try again on phonesex numbers.