Unwrapping Your Full Potential in Bed
By now, you probably know that phone sex is the most amazing thing since masturbation was discovered. You get the intimacy of companionship and human connection while having the benefit of a professional touch that knows all your favorite tempos and spots to touch. You don’t have to go outside, you don’t have to go through the work of trying to pick someone up, and if you already have a partner, you can still have some fun without cheating! Enjoying some fun and exciting phone sex can even give you some new techniques and tricks to use in bed with your partner!
Once you pick your ideal phone chat partner, you can talk to them and get to know them, or you can jump straight into the passion and ecstasy. No matter what your initial approach to phone sex is, the way you go about it can make a big difference in your bedroom life. You can go through the same motions over and over, or you can make the decision to try something new to take to your partner and spice things up. There is a whole world of different positions out there just waiting for you to try them all.
If you are tentative about trying something new with your chatline partner, consider going for something that is basic to understand, but complex enough to spice up your sex life off the phone. One idea may be to use a chair to open things up, physically. Use a chair with no arms and either sit in the seat with your legs spread wide for a more open and free feeling, or bend over the back of the chair for a more vulnerable feeling that can make you feel like you’re being dominated. Another idea may be to straddle a pillow on the bed and use that as a partner. For women, use a toy or your hand and ride it while keeping it still on the pillow. For men, it’s the same concept: use your hand or a toy and try to keep it still on the pillow while you thrust in and out.
Improving your moves isn’t the only thing you’ll get from hot and frequent phone sex. Masturbation helps improve stamina, especially when you are not masturbating just to finish. Try asking your partner to work on edging with you. Let them help you get to the point where you are about to cum, then back off and let yourself cool off. Keep getting yourself just to the point before you finish, then repeat the process until you feel like you’ve held out long enough and you’re ready to orgasm. The build-up and tension caused by edging makes the orgasm a million times better and more intense.
Phone sex chatlines don’t have to be five minutes of you trying to get off. It can be training to treat your next bedroom partner to an orgasm in the most intense ways possible. There are millions of ways to orgasm, and you probably haven’t even discovered half of them, yet. How will you get better in the bedroom today?