Using Phone Sex for Rebound
Breakups are the worst and the natural reaction of feeling unwanted after a breakup is even more awful. As anyone from older generations will tell you, though, the best way to get over a person is to get under a different person! The sexual intimacy and feeling of being desired by someone you are attracted to can lift anyone’s spirits and will have you forgetting your ex’s name in no time. The best way to do this, however, isn’t in bars or clubs, but by having all the phone sex you might desire. Why, you ask? There are a few reasons, but here are the biggest one:
On phone sex chatlines, no one expects you to have a lasting monogamous relationship, and no one expects you to buy them dinner, first. You can have all the guilt free sex that your heart desires without feeling bad about using someone or disappointing someone down the line.
Unlike in-person sex during random hookups from the first dating app you can download, there is no STD or STI transmission during phone sex, so you can get as dirty and wild and raw as you want with no protection, and you won’t contract a single venereal disease with blowing your load.
Endorphins brought on by orgasms help feelings of depression and sadness to dissipate faster, so you’ll be on the road to a better you in no time! You just won’t have all the dead weight of your ex’s extra baggage to bring you down. Orgasms release serotonin and dopamine, which are “happy chemicals” in your brain so you can move on easier, while feeling desired and wanted by someone new.
Phone sex provides a human connection, so you feel less lonely, because no one wants to feel alone when they have a broken heart. The human connection will also help you heal, emotionally, by giving you someone to speak with on a more intimate level without the attachment or pity that comes from confiding in strangers at the bar.
With phone chats, you are less likely to develop attachment with phone sex versus in-person sex. In-person intimacy is scientifically proven to cause your brain to form a bond with your partner. With phone sex, the intimate bond isn’t there, but you’ll still have the connection from the desire, but without feeling bad about not providing breakfast in the morning.
On the phone, you can be whoever you want and find a new partner with the qualities you enjoy easier. It’s easier to work on becoming the person you want to be when you’re talking to someone completely new. They have no idea who you used to be, and will treat you based on who you are, now.
Rebound is proven to help people move past a breakup, and phone sex rebound leaves you without the feelings of guilt or feeling dirty after a random hookup. Not to mention, with phone sex, you don’t have to worry about your date stealing your stuff at the end.